This guy that i met off a horny app has a gf but b4 she came along we were close and would obvs do things together, now we dont speak much ofc but he cheats on her and comes to me to have “fun” i tell him no but im ngl i rlly want him. he was mine and i loved having all of him, i refuse to do anything bc he has a gf even tho their relationship is toxic but he was mine first. hes always texting me saying he misses me but i don’t entertain. is it rllyyyy that bad to have this perception?